Art is the Weapon

I have been a fan of My Chemical Romance for a few years but it is only in the last year and a half that I have become involved in the fanbase. I have found and met some great people and am truly grateful for that.

One thing that I have noticed, and that is beginning to annoy me, is the criticism. Now I do suggest anyone should be free from criticism and I certainly do not say the band members are perfect, however there are some things I feel the need to get off my chest.

The latest uproar is over the video for Kids From Yesterday. It seems it isn’t good enough for some fans, they are disappointed, the band don’t care. Well let me tell you, whether they care or not (and think evidence is overwhelming that they do) it was their decision to create that video for that song.

The whole idea behind the video fits perfectly with the idea behind the song. To contact a fan and credit her with part of the video, I feel is typical of how this band like to involve their fans. It seems fitting also in reference to the fact that they have spent 10 years together, rising from the clubs of New Jersey to headlining Reading and Leeds.

OK, that’s my say about that.

The main thing I want to say is that art is personal. True artists create what they feel is right at that moment in time; create for themselves not their public. Art comes from the heart not from a need to make money or gain more fans. By all means express your disappointment if you must but temper your complaints with the knowledge that these four men are creating something that makes them happy in the hopes that it makes others happy too – isn’t that more important than creating to gain popularity?

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Happy New Year

I am celebrating with Big Bang Theory and a few Frankie Fizz’s. Hope 2012 is all you could desire.

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Cocktail Invention (1)

I have been experimenting with alcohol (responsibly I hasten to add), especially with the flavoured vodkas and schnapps. Here is my first invention.

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Frankie Fizz

Tall glass

Some ice

2cl each of amaretto, peach schnapps and vanilla vodka

Fill half way with orange then top with lemonade, but I prefer a long drink. Use less juice & lemonade if you want it stronger.

It’s called a Frankie Fizz because it is fun, fruity and has a kick. Plus I invented it on a Friday.

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All I want for Xmas

Many people seem to use this time of year for reflection and I guess I am no exception. My last post was more than a little negative an I feel that this was unfair. My hubby tries his bets to provide for our family and has recently shown that he appreciates all the hard work I do.

So, what do I want for xmas?

I want to be able to spend the day having fun with my family and hope that my MIL doesn’t go on about the dog she chose to give away (then changed her mind too late) and makes us all feel uncomfortable.

Beyond that I want less stress, less weight (both within my control) plus more laughing, learning and loving (more emotional than physical) – also within my control.

It appears then that if I want my wishes to come true I have to get off my ass and make it happen. Failure is not an option.

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I Don’t Love You (?)

I just spent an extended amount of time with my husband – we went on an 9 day holiday with family. It brought home to me how much we have changed as a couple from when we first met.

I can’t say for my habits etc, I can only hope they’re not too annoying, but I realised how many things he does that irritate the hell out of me. To name a few – not only is he a loud eater (even daughter commented) and totally unable to sit still or be quiet for any length of time, but he has also turned into a complainer. His mother has always been pretty negative and it seems he is getting more like her. It got to the stage where our son didn’t want to sit next to him on the flight home. I can’t stand someone who complains all the time, I always try to see the good/bright side of things after suffering pot-natal depression. Hearing someone whinge so often really brings me down.

Don’t get me wrong, I have a loyalty to my husband and he is very good to his family in a lot of ways, but I have come to realise that I don’t want to spend extended lengths of time with him. I don’t know if I particularly even like him. If I met him now I wouldn’t marry him.

This seems sad, and horrible of me and I do feel bad for thinking it let alone writing about it, yet it’s a truth I have to face. Having said this I wouldn’t instigate a divorce, I do still care about my husband, but can you care about someone you kinda dislike? It seems I can and do.

It has happened gradually over the years that we lead pretty separate lives and I think that’s what will keep us going over the remaining years. I have no wish for anyone else, I couldn’t face the thought of dating again. The only situation I could wish for is to live alone – but that’s more for the fact I wouldn’t have to cook & clean & wash for anyone else.

So I guess it’s just me and a tolerant attitude.

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