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You’ll kill my enemies

It’s true – high school never ends!

Sometimes I can understand how people can get all stabbity-stab with idiots & whiners. Sometimes I could really do with a discreet hitman (or woman).

I am quite a friendly person and tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. I should know better at my age. Yesterday I discovered that someone whom I thought was going to turn out a fairly good friend was really an whiny, needy individual who only cared about how her feelings counted and no-one else’s mattered.

Unfortunately I got a little snarky online about it and really I shouldn’t but I could tell from her comments that the version of events her other contacts got was quite different from reality – I fucking well hate that!

Anyway, I am better off without her and her negativity. She actually saved me hurting her feelings because I had already started to recognise the neediness and self-centredness and would have eventually started to distance myself from her anyway.

It still hurts though.

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