Many people seem to use this time of year for reflection and I guess I am no exception. My last post was more than a little negative an I feel that this was unfair. My hubby tries his bets to provide for our family and has recently shown that he appreciates all the hard work I do.

So, what do I want for xmas?

I want to be able to spend the day having fun with my family and hope that my MIL doesn’t go on about the dog she chose to give away (then changed her mind too late) and makes us all feel uncomfortable.

Beyond that I want less stress, less weight (both within my control) plus more laughing, learning and loving (more emotional than physical) – also within my control.

It appears then that if I want my wishes to come true I have to get off my ass and make it happen. Failure is not an option.